Pick My Brain
Cohort 4 · Starts October 15

Comox Valley
Coffee & Conversation

The Valley is full of incredible people. This is your invitation to get matched with 10 of them for an interesting coffee and conversation. ☕

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🌱 Updated in real time🎯 Goal · 1,000 coffees
10 coffees · 10 new people · One year · $100

300+ locals said YES, 24 new people joined this month

The locals you could meet

Meet new people

Real neighbours, real stories, one coffee (or tea) at a time.

Alice
Alice.Cumberland

Lived here for 10+ years

One-Line Story

EFT tapping practitioner who works with people around the world.

Emily
Emily.Cumberland

Lived here for 1-3 years

One-Line Story

Travel advisor, trail runner, and a dedicated sourdough baker.

Annie
Annie.Courtenay

Lived here for 10+ years

One-Line Story

Teaches the Hakomi Method and process painting, and prefers tea to coffee.

Renee
Renee.Cumberland

Lived here for 10+ years

One-Line Story

Sea kayak guide, wilderness teacher, and a heart worn on the sleeve.

Abigail
Abigail.Courtenay

New to the valley

One-Line Story

Civil engineering student who plays sax and once won a spaghetti-eating contest.

Marie
Marie.Comox

Lived here for 3-6 years

One-Line Story

Conflict resolution coach from Normandy who once worked in IT.

(*) Everyone who said YES!

The places you could meet

Discover
local places

Fourteen cafés and pubs across Courtenay, Cumberland, Comox and Royston. You pick your favourites, and we match you with people who share them.

  • Mudsharks Coffee Bar, CourtenayOFFICIAL PARTNER
    Mudsharks Coffee Bar.COURTENAY
  • Laneway, Cumberland
    Laneway.CUMBERLAND
  • The Mill Coffee, Comox
    The Mill Coffee.COMOX
  • Gladstone’s Pub, CourtenayOFFICIAL PARTNER
    Gladstone’s Pub.COURTENAY
  • Royston Roasting Company, Royston
    Royston Roasting Company.ROYSTON
  • Dark Side Chocolates, Cumberland
    Dark Side Chocolates.CUMBERLAND
  • Tin Town Cafe, Courtenay
    Tin Town Cafe.COURTENAY
  • Church St. Taphouse, Comox
    Church St. Taphouse.COMOX
  • Coffee Love Bug, Courtenay
    Coffee Love Bug.COURTENAY
  • The Waverley Hotel, Cumberland
    The Waverley Hotel.CUMBERLAND
  • Milano Coffee, Courtenay
    Milano Coffee.COURTENAY
  • Bean Around The World, Courtenay
    Bean Around The World.COURTENAY
  • Freya, Courtenay
    Freya.COURTENAY
  • Cumberland Grind, Cumberland
    Cumberland Grind.CUMBERLAND

Good for you. Good for them.
Good for the Valley.

Triple win.

  • More stories.A forestry engineer. A nurse who opened a consignment shop. An emerging clown. Ten lives you’d never have heard otherwise.
  • More connection.Real conversations with people outside your usual circle, from every age and corner of the Valley.
  • More familiar faces.Wave at the market and get waved back. The Valley starts to feel smaller, in the best way.
  • More love for local.Try a café you’ve never visited. Bring someone to your favourite. Give a local business two more reasons to keep the kettle on.
  • More perspective.The same Valley, through someone else’s eyes. Your own view gets a little wider.
  • More of the Valley’s story.What this place used to be. What brought you both here. What you hope comes next.
The experience

How does it work?

Five simple steps to meeting someone you might otherwise never meet.

  1. 1

    Tell us a little about yourself

    Share your interests, experiences and what you’d welcome from a new connection.

  2. 2

    Get matched with someone new

    Meet a good human and discover a little about their story before you connect.

  3. 3

    Catch up for a Coffee (or tea)

    Make time for a real conversation. Share your stories, ask questions and give each other space to be heard.

  4. 4

    Take a moment to reflect

    How did the conversation leave you feeling? Share what it meant to you through a few short questions.

  5. 5

    Make connection a ritual

    Keep making room for someone new. Ten good humans. Ten opportunities to see things differently.

9:41●●●
Tell us about you
Q1What do you do, and why do you do it?
Q2What could you talk about for hours?
QUESTION 3 OF 11

What kinds of people would you genuinely love to meet?

Humans are more than a checklist. Pick as many as resonate.

Surprise meBuilder / entrepreneurTradespersonFarmer or food growerCreative / artistTherapist or counsellorTeacherCoachSomeone in healthcareDeep thinkerCurious humanQuiet observerBig dreamerIntrovertExtrovertCommunity builderAdventurerLifelong learnerSomeone new to the Valley
+ 8 more questions
Next question
Your new matchCOFFEE #3
COMPLETE
Annie Rousseau, Courtenay
Annie.
COURTENAY
Lived here for 10+ years
ONE-LINE STORY
Teaches the Hakomi Method and process painting, and prefers tea to coffee.
Schedule coffee
Mudsharks Coffee Bar
OCT15
Thursday · 10:00–11:00 amYou both said yes.
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☕ SSCOFFEES & CONVERSATIONS2 locals met.8 more coffees and conversations to go. Tap a face to meet them.
AnnieBryce
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My journey to 10 conversationssouthshorecoffees.world
Your reflectionCOFFEE #3 · ANNIE R.
1  How was it?
😕😐🙂😊🤩
2  What did you talk about?
Second careersOld thingsCumberlandFamily+ Add
3  What did you learn or notice?Twenty years in emergency rooms, and she still believes the best in strangers.
4  Do you want us to match you again in the future?
Yes, pleaseMaybeNot right now
5  How long into the future?
1 month3 months6 months12 months
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In their own words

Why locals are saying YES

Real quotes from locals when we asked them why they joined.

  • “I often sit in coffee shops and stare at strangers, trying to figure their stories out. Now I can just ask them.”
    KierKier
  • “I love discovering the connection points and shared experiences, values, and dreams between people from all different walks of life. There's always something to learn, and there are endless stories that deserve to be heard.”
    Krys
  • “I've learned that some of the most meaningful moments in life begin with a simple conversation. A chance meeting, an unexpected idea, a story you've never heard before, or a person you never would have met otherwise can sometimes change the direction of your life in ways you couldn't have predicted.”
    Kirby
  • “I am super passionate about community and love doing random side quests! Meeting new people is the spice of my life!”
    ZoeZoe
  • “I like the idea of stepping a little outside my usual circles and having conversations with people I wouldn't normally meet—no expectations, just showing up and seeing what happens.”
    Nancy
  • “I love one-on-one conversations and getting to know new people, their life stories, and what lights them up.”
    EmilyEmily

In the wild

What YES looks like.

Stepping into someone else’s world and inviting them into yours.

Two members smiling together over coffee at a local cafe
A member and her match laughing in armchairs with coffee mugs
Two members grinning in front of a garden gate
Two members taking a selfie on a sunny street after their coffee
Philippe and Sweta taking a sunny selfie after their coffee

Side effects may include losing track of time and seeing things a little differently. ☕️

From the blog

What YES feels like.

Marie-Clo shared how her first 6 coffees went.

Read Marie-Clo’s story
Questions from the community

Frequently asked questions.

THE INVITATION, ONE LAST TIME ☕️

10 locals. 10 coffees.
10 conversations.

Discover a side of our community that only the locals can reveal.

MEET 10 LOCALS 10 coffees · 10 new people · One year · $100